Award-winning rapper Cassper Nyovest, real name Refiloe Phoolo, has issued a public apology following revelations from his baby-mama, Thobeka Majozi, about his infidelity during a deeply challenging period in their son’s life.
Majozi’s account, shared this week, detailed the rapper's affair with his now-wife, Pulane Mojaki, while their son battled cancer. The revelation has sparked significant public discussion and criticism.
Majozi’s statement painted a poignant picture of her struggles.
The gravity of her situation is further underscored by her description of the subsequent two years: “I lived in an oncology hospital for two years with my son as he underwent chemotherapy and life-threatening surgeries.”
It was during this incredibly stressful time, while caring for her critically ill child, that Majozi discovered Cassper's infidelity. The added emotional burden of dealing with her partner’s betrayal, while simultaneously navigating the complexities of her son’s cancer treatment, is evident in her words.
The woman involved in the affair, Pulane Mojaki, who is now Cassper's wife, was aware of the son's illness. Majozi’s account alleges that Mojaki flaunted her relationship with Cassper, compounding the emotional distress Majozi was already experiencing. This detail adds a layer of complexity to the situation, raising questions about Mojaki's awareness and the ethical implications of her actions.
The public outcry following Majozi's statement prompted Cassper's response. On Thursday morning, he took to social media to address the accusations directly. He confirmed the truth of Majozi's claims, stating, “Earlier this year, I went on Mpumi Ledwaba’s podcast to share the type of life I used to live before. I left out certain information, such as my son having cancer, because we had agreed to keep it private and away from the public.”
This admission acknowledges a previous attempt to protect his son's privacy, a detail that adds another dimension to the public's reaction.
Cassper's apology continued with a reflection on his past behaviour.
“I want to confirm that this is the truth about the person that I was. It is something that I am not proud of [and something] that I had to grow from and forgive myself. Gents, when you make bad decisions in your life, these are consequences; this is what happens. Not only do you hurt people, but you do not get to choose how they deal with the pain that you cause them.”
This statement shows a degree of self-awareness and remorse, acknowledging the impact of his actions on Majozi.
He expressed understanding for Majozi's decision to share her story, stating that he hopes it brings her peace. This acknowledgement of Majozi’s perspective demonstrates a level of empathy, though the apology itself does not fully address the pain inflicted.
The public response to Cassper’s apology remains divided, with some accepting his expression of remorse while others remain critical of his actions and the timing of his admission.