Johannesburg – Pearl Thusi, the acclaimed actress and TV presenter, has declared that tlof tlof is firmly off the cards for the foreseeable future. In a candid revelation, Thusi prioritises her role as a mother, particularly as her eldest daughter prepares for university.
This announcement comes as Thusi prepares for the launch of her new reality show, The Real Pearl Thusi, on BET.
The show promises an intimate look into Thusi’s life, offering viewers unprecedented access to her vulnerabilities, friendships, relationships, and, most prominently, her experiences as a mother. Thusi herself describes her daughter, Thando, as the “reality star of the show,” suggesting that the series will heavily feature Thando’s journey into adulthood.
“The reality star of the show is my daughter Thando,” Thusi confirmed. The show will also address rumours and speculation surrounding her life, providing a platform for Thusi to set the record straight. She plans to share deeply personal aspects of her life, including the loss of her mother at the young age of 15 and the subsequent passing of her father in 2020. These experiences will undoubtedly add a layer of emotional depth to the series.
Addressing her current relationship status, Thusi stated unequivocally, “At the moment, I am not dating anyone, genuinely. If I was, I would have to get the person's consent to put them on the show.”
This clear statement leaves little room for ambiguity regarding her romantic life. Her focus, she explains, remains firmly on her children.
Thusi elaborated on her reasons for abstaining from dating, highlighting the significant role her daughter plays in her life: “I'm evolving; I'm coming off age; my daughter Thando is coming off age; she's about to leave the nest. So, I'm trying to catch up and do everything with her before she leaves. Her first tattoo, belly ring, and anything she wants,” she shared.
This emphasis on her relationship with Thando underscores the depth of their bond and the importance Thusi places on this crucial period in her daughter's life.
The decision to forgo dating is not merely a matter of convenience for Thusi; it's a conscious choice driven by a deep sense of responsibility and commitment to her family.
This candid admission reveals a woman deeply committed to her daughter’s well-being, placing her daughter's needs above her own romantic desires.
Thusi’s perspective on relationships is grounded in a realistic assessment of her current priorities and the demands of motherhood. She sets a high bar for any potential partner: “If I date anyone, they would have a lot to put on the table, and they can't take anything away from me because I have my children,” she asserted.
This statement suggests that any future partner would need to understand and respect the central role her children play in her life. It's a clear message that her children's needs will always come first.
