Taking to Instagram on Valentine's Day, Rachel expressed how the day reopened wounds and left her heartbroken once more. The couple announced their separation in October 2024 after eight years of marriage, a decision that shocked many South Africans.
In her heartfelt post, Rachel reflected on the challenges of parenting while navigating the emotional turmoil of their split. "We do love every day, anyway. But this Valentine’s Day, I made a brave decision, and it broke my heart all over again. Parenting when the world feels like it's crumbling around you is a different kind of challenge one, I hope I'll never have to experience at this level again," Rachel wrote. Though she did not disclose specifics, her words conveyed the immense burden she carried.
Her candid post received an outpouring of support from fans and friends, for which she expressed deep gratitude. "Never been more grateful for the very few who showed up to support and lean on this week, especially. One day at a time felt too big this week, so I just did one hour at a time and it kinda helped. I made it to Saturday!" she said.
Rachel acknowledged the importance of having a strong support system during tough times. She emphasized that despite her heartbreak, she remained focused on her family’s well-being. Their presence gave her strength to push forward. She also revealed her coping strategy—taking things one hour at a time instead of focusing on the entire week. This approach helped her manage her emotions, and she celebrated making it through to Saturday.
Rachel and Siya's love story began in 2012, leading to their wedding in 2016. They have two children, Nicholas (10) and Keziah (7). Since the separation, Siya has been residing in Durban, KZN, where he continues his rugby career with the Durban-based team, Sharks.
The couple released a joint statement announcing their decision in October 2024. "This decision comes from a place of love, respect, and understanding that this is the best path forward for both of us," the statement read at the time. "While our relationship as a couple is changing, we remain great friends and committed partners in raising our children with the same love and care they've always known. We'll also continue working together on the foundation. That means so much to us." They reassured the public of their commitment to co-parenting and maintaining a strong foundation for their kids.
Taking part in the popular “day in my life” TikTok trend, Rachel documented her daily routine, giving fans an insight into the whirlwind of responsibilities she tackles each day.
The video begins with Rachel jumping out of bed, waking up her children, and brushing her teeth before changing into her workout gear. As she gets ready for the day, she is also seen brushing her daughter Keziah’s hair. Despite the early start, the morning was far from smooth sailing, as Rachel revealed that Keziah was in a bad mood.
Balancing parenting and work, she then headed to a scheduled shoot before diving into meetings for the rest of the day. The clip ends with a quiet moment—tea, bedtime stories, and a prayer to close off the evening.
@rachelkolisi Okay this took tons of effort and time! A few of you said it would be nice to see what a typical day is like for me. This will give you an idea. Basically I’m late for everything – all the time 🫠
Acknowledging the effort it took to put the video together, Rachel captioned the post: "Okay, this took tons of effort and time! A few of you said it would be nice to see what a typical day is like for me. This will give you an idea. Basically, I’m late for everything—all the time 🫠."
Despite the changes in her personal life, Rachel continues to focus on her career, parenting, and personal growth, often sharing candid moments with her followers. The TikTok video resonated with many of her followers, who appreciated her honesty and authenticity.
“Rachel Kolisi thank you for showing us that you’re just like us, just another mom doing mom things without glitz and glam,” wrote one fan. “Thank you for taking the time to give us a peek into your day!” another commented.
Others praised her ability to balance a busy schedule while still making time for exercise, self-care, and her children. Rachel’s journey continues to inspire her followers as she embraces new challenges with resilience and grace.
