Johannesburg – Veteran actress and businesswoman Lillian Dube (79) has shared her personal story of resilience in battling breast cancer twice, while also offering some unconventional advice to South Africans regarding early cancer detection.
Dube, a two-time breast cancer survivor, spoke to Daily Sun about the importance of awareness and early diagnosis in the fight against the disease.
Dube, known affectionately as Mam Lillian, was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2007 at the age of 63. She discovered a lump while bathing and promptly sought medical attention.
"At first, I thought I was going to die. I was angry, in denial, then came acceptance. Joining a support group helped me see cancer is not a death sentence when caught early," she revealed.
Mam Lillian underwent chemotherapy, radiation, and a lumpectomy as part of her initial treatment. However, eight years later, the cancer returned, necessitating a mastectomy.
"I'm alive today because it wasn't the same cancer, though it was on the same breast. Had it been the same, I could have died," she explained.
In addition to sharing her personal journey, Mam Lillian offered some rather candid advice on how couples can potentially detect early signs of cancer through intimate touch.
"Ladies should brush their partner's testicles gently, and men should suck their partner's nipples. If they react painfully, it could be a sign of prostate or breast cancer. However, this doesn't cure cancer. You still need to go for a mammogram," she emphasised.
Mam Lillian stressed that while these intimate examinations can be a potential indicator, they are not a substitute for professional medical screening.
The actress also highlighted the financial challenges associated with cancer treatment. She revealed that the treatment for her second bout with cancer was incredibly costly, with the Herceptin medication alone costing half a million rand.
"After my medical aid was exhausted, I was so angry I approached Doctors Without Borders and the former minister of health to make the treatment available at local hospitals," she said, adding that many young women succumb to the disease not because of the cancer itself, but due to the fear of being unable to afford treatment.
Mam Lillian has been a vocal advocate for cancer awareness for many years. She has actively participated in various initiatives, including cancer rides and road trips from Soweto to Cape Town, sponsored by Harley-Davidson.
"I started creating awareness from the onset because cancer in its initial stage is not painful. People often detect it too late," she explained.
Despite the challenges she has faced, Mam Lillian remains grateful for her experience with cancer, as it has allowed her to help others.
"I'm grateful for having had cancer because it helped me help others. It gave me hope. A lot of people don't die from cancer, but from fear that takes away hope. I still support cancer survivors," she concluded.
Mam Lillian's story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of early detection, awareness, and support in the fight against cancer. Her candid advice, while unconventional, underscores the need for open communication and proactive health practices.
