Johannesburg – In a world where women in sport often face barriers and prejudice, Vivian Rapakgadi Ntsoane, a former Basetsana Basetsana and Mamelodi Sundowns Ladies FC player, stands as a testament to the power of perseverance and the shattering of stereotypes. Her story, one of athletic prowess, academic achievement, and a fierce determination to carve her own path, resonates with a powerful message for both aspiring athletes and those seeking to challenge societal norms.
"Women proposed to me thinking that I was a lesbian," Ntsoane revealed to Daily Sun, her words echoing the challenges she faced as a young woman navigating the world of sport. Her athletic physique, a testament to years of rigorous training, often led to assumptions and misinterpretations, creating a barrier to forming relationships.
"I didn't have a boyfriend growing up. The boys felt challenged by my character. It was tough for a man to approach me," she explained, highlighting the social pressure she faced. Despite her athletic prowess, Ntsoane's femininity was often questioned, with some doubting her sexuality due to her strong personality and athletic build.
"Men and boys would question if I dated girls or boys, thinking I was a lesbian. Off the field, my makeup made me look more feminine," she shared, revealing the complexities of navigating gender expectations in a male-dominated field.
However, Ntsoane's journey was not defined by these challenges. Her passion for football, ignited at a young age, propelled her forward, leading her to a professional career with Mamelodi Sundowns Ladies FC in 2009. Her talent, evident on the pitch, earned her a bursary to study sports science at the University of Pretoria, a testament to her dedication to both athletic and academic excellence.
"My talent secured me a bursary, for which I'm thankful," she stated, acknowledging the opportunity that allowed her to pursue her education while excelling in her chosen sport.
Ntsoane's dedication to her craft extended beyond the football field. She also holds an N3 mechanical engineering certificate from Tshwane North College, demonstrating a breadth of skills and a commitment to lifelong learning. "God blessed me with talent that helped secure a bursary. I'm still thrilled about it today," she shared, expressing her gratitude for the opportunities that have shaped her life.
While Ntsoane enjoyed her time with Basetsana, she believes her height was a disadvantage in not playing for Banyana Banyana, the South African women's national football team. Despite this setback, her determination to excel in the world of sport remained unwavering.
Now retired from professional football, Ntsoane has transitioned into a new chapter, embracing her passion for fitness and health. She is a qualified aerobics instructor and fitness manager at Zone Fitness Club, inspiring others to lead healthy and active lifestyles.
"I miss football greatly and aim to advise players on successful career paths. Everyone can succeed with focus," she stated, sharing her desire to mentor and guide aspiring athletes. Ntsoane's ambition extends beyond her current role, with aspirations to become a fitness trainer for PSL teams and national teams, a testament to her unwavering commitment to the world of sport.
Ntsoane, described as ambitious, loving, and energetic, is a vocal advocate for greater female representation in fitness training within PSL teams. She firmly believes that women can excel in this male-dominated field, bringing unique perspectives and expertise to the table. She also holds a Caf D coaching licence, further solidifying her credentials as a leader in the world of sport.
